For context my gf (23f), and I (25m) are in an open relationship and are currently doing long distance. Recently, she slept with a past hookup who she enjoys seeing because it is easy and they have very different life goals. She said she felt guilty doing it because she doesn’t want to to hurt my feelings, but I have encouraged her to act on her sexual desires. I have always known that she likes to be slutty and it is something I have always liked about her.
She didn’t initially tell me about it because we have a complex relationship, but she eventually told me and this was when she said she felt bad. I told her she had no reason to and asked her for details regarding the encounter. We went on to discuss the way things unfolded and what she did with him, and as she told me and reflecting on it I have began to realize that I found it was so hot to have her describe what happened.
I’m curious as to how many people out there actually enjoy this because it is obviously not something that is accepted in society? Also, for those that share similar kinks/fetishes, how have you explored them in a way that’s enjoyable for you and your partner?
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this is very very common but also very scoffed at
This is not a new kink. New to you maybe but it’s very common.
Your basically describing a hot wife type lifestyle. You may even be crossing over to cuckold.
Do some research.
If you’re looking for a community to talk about these things, r/polyamory and r/nonmonogamy would be good places to start.