A few months ago I started hooking up with this guy and now I have feelings but I have very mixed signals. I find myself being incredibly jealous and we aren’t even official. I’m not sure if he’s seeing anyone else but I want to know. This has been going on for about 3 months and since I’ve developed feelings it’s been taking a toll on my mental health. Im borderline obsessive and I’ve never been like this before but I’m just so insecure about myself and what we are. I know I need to confront him and ask directly, however I can not seem to work up the nerve no matter how much I try. Anyone have similar experiences? Any guys out there, if you were him would you be annoyed if I confronted you like this? Any advice on how to work up the courage to be direct and ask? Thanks for anything you can give me. If you have more questions just ask.