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I always asked casually about testing (not in any particular spicy mood) and never had any issue with it (may be just luck tho. I think making a big deal of it is what makes things awkward.
Before I even start a sexual conversation bc people be dirty as fuck out here, and if they get offended I don’t even continue the conversation bc that right there is a red flag
Personally, I ask beforehand. And I ask my partner get tested before we have sex if they haven’t had one since their last sexual partner. There are diseases that aren’t effectively stopped by a condom, and I’m not messing around with that.
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I don’t think that’s an appropriate sexy conversation. Before anything escalates to mood-killing time, you need to have this discussion. Once the hormones and adrenaline kick in, honesty and maturity fly out the window.
I always asked. If they got weird, I didn’t trust them and they’re not worth my time.
Lol, there is no sexy way ffs.
Just ask if they know if they’re clean or not. Don’t bring up anything specific
I’d feel more comfortable if we both got tested