So, I’ve been good friends with a girl named Maria for over four years now, however we kinda lost contact once I moved to the UK for studies, while she stayed in our homeland. Few weeks ago, a guy I used to hang around with back in my country reached out to me and we started talking. Maria never mentioned anything about him before, so I supposed nothing was going on between them, despite her knowing him. One thing led to another and we started sexting. We sent nude pictures to one another and video called during nighttime.
Two days ago, I received a phone call from Maria. I was weirded out because our last phone call was more than two months ago when I called to wish her a happy birthday. I picked up the phone and she went feral. She started yelling at me and called me all sorts of names, because supposedly I was “fishing” for her boyfriend who is not yet her boyfriend but was about to be. I told her that it was a misunderstanding, but she insisted that she had hinted about being into him and that I shouldn’t have reached out to him. We haven’t spoken since, but I feel bad because she had never been open about any romantic situation of hers. Maybe she did hint and I just didn’t catch onto it. Should I try apologising or just let her be?
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I wouldn’t apologize, you didn’t do anything wrong. Clearly you’re attracted to the guy but do you see the relationship going anywhere besides sexy stuff? If your answer is No, then you can try your best to explain that the guy friend is nothing to your friendship with her. But if your friend never spoke on the issue or even mentioned to your recollection. It was a misunderstanding. Also…why the fuck is the dude talking to you if she and him are talking? He isn’t completely interested in her if he trading nudes with another female. What’s to say you’re the only female he’s talking to besides Maria?
you could apologize but she doesn’t believe you. getting that mad over something like this isn’t mature or healthy anyways, normally i’d say just apologize for the fuck of it but like in this case i don’t see the point in entertaining that behavior. i would probably apologize for hurting her feelings and tell her again i didn’t know. after that it’s up to her whether she accepts the apology or not or whether she believes u or not
Another clear reason girls should stop “hinting” and just be open about things
warn that guy about Maria’s craziness and do your friend a favour , you can simply avoid her so you’re good