Do you ever feel like you have low standards of how you should be treated?

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1. No

2. I mean I deliberately hang out around people I don’t like because they’re less toxic to me than my family, so yeah.

3. I didn’t know that I did until a lot of stuff went down and even then, it took a long time for me to realize that people in general deserve better than how my closest “friends” were treating me. It’s still active work to making sure I remember to respect myself because I forget all of the time. I think remembering to respect and honor myself helps me remember to set boundaries with people who haven’t been treating me decently.

4. Sometimes people talk about how shitty someone treated them and list some behaviors and i realize that those are done to me constantly. But it still doesn’t bother me, even after knowing that behavior is unacceptable. I don’t see myself as worthy of such good treatment so i don’t seek it.