I (f21) have posted in the past about my best friend (m22), you guys coined our entanglement “true friends with benefits”. We are now moving into an apartment 1400 miles away together. We are still not in a relationship and he talks about our future like we are getting married and having kids. It’s a one bedroom and we are talking about getting a dog. I lived with him and his roomate a couple weeks ago but he asked me to move out because he wanted to sleep with other girls. He struggled having me in his space but I still came to visit every other week and stayed for a week at a time. How do I make this easier how do I make it go smoother? I love this man so so much, but we aren’t together and I have no idea how to make him more comfy.
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You only have one life quit living for someone who isn’t doing the same for you. Prioritize yourself because you will be all you have when he decides he wants to sleep around again. He showed you your feelings didn’t matter then. Lower your veil of what you want him to be and see him for what he is like he showed you.
He sounds like he doesnt know what he wants.