I (M30) have been seeing someone (F33) for about 10ish dates. She’s sweet and we’ve been having fun getting to know one another and having lovely sex, but I don’t see this developing into anything serious. I intend to communicate this to her out of respect as she is looking for a long term partner. I do care about her and don’t want to hurt her feelings any more than is necessary. How do I communicate this in a kind way?
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Be honest while being sensitive to her feelings and don’t be cruel. I hate the phrase brutally honest, honesty does not need brutality. Honesty without compassion is cruelty. So be honest, empathetic and compassionate and just Talk to her like an adult, ultimately if you come at her correct and you’re honest etc… (even if you’re not really but if you are it’ll lead to a clear conscience) you’re not responsible for her feelings or how she takes it
Your wife found out
Say peace out baby! Just kidding: try to be nice.
It took you 10 dates to figure that out ?