The last few months have been terrible and I really need to rant/commiserate with anyone with similar experiences. First, I was dating a guy for two months and then he ghosted me out of nowhere, after literally saying he wouldn’t ghost me. Then I met a guy on Bumble and we made a date and right before the date he deleted his entire profile and didn’t show up. Now this weekend, I’ve been talking to a guy for four days straight, and we set up a date and when it comes time to meet he says he doesn’t think we are connecting and hes not feeling it….I just can’t understand this. the conversation was good, I gave long responses, asked questions, we kept the conversation going, we had lots in common, wanted similar things in life. How is this not connecting? Why would he have kept constantly texting me if he wasn’t feeling it? Why do they always agree to plans and then flake out at the last moment? I’m so sick of the constant disappointment, of people showing up and then disappearing, of not being able to believe anything people say, giving people the benefit of the doubt and then they’re just shit. I can’t cope with this. Please tell me how others deal with this bullshit, its just awful.
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My advice for online dating. Don’t. Even when I was in the best shape of my life the best I could ever get was maybe a few responses from a match and never seeing anyone in person. And that was before the days of everyone just promoting their OnlyFans or whatever