I’ve been on here a few times speaking abt this. But I’ll sum it up quick and get to the point lol. I was invited to an acquaintance’s house party after hs graduation and started going regularly bc it was fun. His dad seemed so cool and funny. Somehow a very inappropriate relationship developed between me and this persons dad. I didn’t like the age gap but he convinced it was okay and I was over-thinking. Long story-short, he(the father) was incredibly abusive. After the situation ended, I apologized to said acquaintance for what happened and soon I came to his mother( her and the dad have been divorced for 8 years) and apologized again bc I felt terrible looking at it in retrospect. I don’t want to discuss the mother or acquaintance reaction to me apologizing to the mother but I felt like it was the right thing to do and now idk. I’ve come to Reddit bc I have zero emotional support from my fam and I’m just kinda confused. I feel taken advantage of and hurt bc my trust was betrayed by someone I thought I could trust and still reached out to apologize and idk my head is swirling. Me n the acquaintance is both 18 and the father is 50 for context Ik it’s bad :/
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That is too much of an age gap. The father took advantage of you. It was very inappropriate of him to be with you in the first place since you know his kid.