How do you know you married the right partner?

6 comments

1. If you’re happy, then you’re good to go.

   No sense wondering if there is better. Make better where you are.

2. Wife was 23 I was 24. 40 years later still married. Problems, yes. Still in love yes. You can’t know. It either works or it doesn’t.

   Once got bad enough to need counseling

3. I don’t think there’s necessarily a “right person” you’ve both made a life long commitment to each other and now it’s about maintaining that commitment. Being there for each other even as you both inevitably grow and change.

4. The right answer is: NOBODY married the right person. You never even met the right person.

5. I’m a very logical thinker and am of the belief that there is not one special partner for every person. The big question is whether or not you are generally happy with your relationship. I’ve been with my wife for 16 years and can’t imagine our relationship ending until one of us dies. That said, I’m sure there are plenty of other people out there either of us could have had a good marriage with.

6. If you still want to be together, you’re good. Don’t fret about a problem that’s not there.