Dear Reddit! How long do you think that a couple should be together before getting married? I am thinking as to the time when you would think that the marriage was a sensible, well thought out decision – and not a too quick and frivolous choice?

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6 comments
  1. Entire depends on the individual. Are you the kind of person to see others for who they are or a projection of your ideal mate where you only see what you wanna see?

  2. It’s up to each couple but I would suggest a year as a bare minimum. Anytime after that is good. Could be a year, 3 years, 5 years, 10 years, 30 years, forever.

    Also I would recommend that younger couples take their time a bit more, a something like 2-3 years minimum.

  3. Engaged after 1 month. Married after 3 months. Going on 15 years now. Had our ups and downs but overall I wouldn’t change it for anything. She is the perfect match for my

  4. Depends on the couple. My exH and I were together 7 years before we got married. See the ex part? I knew on my second date with my H that I’d marry him. He told me at the 6 week mark that he was ready to marry me then and there. We went a more cautious route, but neither of us ever wavered in knowing it was just right and just worked.

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