I (26M) recently matched with someone (26F) on Tinder and we started talking and I asked her out few days later. She said yes but also added that she wants to be my friend first and get to know me.
How do you all see this? I immediately felt platonic vibes from her and confused whether to pursue this or not.
PS, I’m open to long term relationship but probably not something where you build everything for months and date like it’s the 90’s. I wouldn’t wanna waste her or mine time
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Red flag. She might just be lonely and looking for friends. Tinder is meant for hook-ups, not friendships. She should try Hinge or Bumble.