M24 here, she is F22. We met at a sports league we are on this summer and have some common friends.
She is quite friendly in general with everyone and hence the confusion.
I once mentioned we should play a sport together and she messaged me upfront a couple days later she is in, can’t wait for tomorrow and stuff. She drove ~15 km to come play at university (she is in the same university and comes weekly for the league but lives a little far from campus) and spent on parking and stuff, we joked and laughed all the time while playing one on one. While leaving she kinda hinted I walk her to her car when I started walking the other way.
I don’t know if I should have said I like you? I just walked her to car and said let’s do it again later this week but she said she’s exhausted and next time we met she was kinda cold, not a lot but slightly.
I am sure I am overthinking this a lot but my STEM program was almost all male and so was my high school and I never had a gf before so I can’t really read signs very well. There has not been any touchy feely behaviour.
There has been no touchy-feely from any side. I am an extrovert but ironically shy when it comes to romance. I also wear a turban and do not want to convey I am not into dating because of culture/tradition or I am not interested because I totally am interested.
TLDR: Met her as part of a summer league and know her for a couple months. Recently she agreed to hangout one on one which went well but I am not sure if she is actually into me.
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> I don’t know if I should have said I like you?
No. Tell them you like them when you KNOW you like them.
> said let’s do it again later this week but she said she’s exhausted and next time we met she was kinda cold, not a lot but slightly.
Ask her out to dinner or drinks. Take this dynamic out of the sports setting.
> There has not been any touchy feely behaviour.
And there shouldn’t be. You two are merely friends that potentially view each other as dating prospects.