Ever since I got engaged to my wonderful fiancée, something has changed in her. She’s like really gotten into some humiliation or some other kink. I dunno. She doesn’t want to talk about it, but she’s been doing a lot of things that are definitely submissive. Like begging me for my cum, swallowing it even! (she would never do that) and now, telling me “cum on your fiancée’s face, paint it!” and things like that. That’s pretty risqué for her and like a bit uncharacteristic. What do you think is going on here? Anyone have their spouse change when they got engaged? Like make her feel free?
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Sounds like there were things she was saving for her husband. Lucky you! Have fun!
Sounds like she feels safe and the commitment you are making has turned her on.
I didn’t change until a couple years ago!
Being comfortable and safe in a relationship can do wonders for a sex life.
However…..this does need to be discussed and worked out to figure out what you both want.
I highly recommend two shows to watch together:
Netflix: How to build a sex room
Tubio/Amazon: The good girls guide to kinky sex
Both of those will expose you to different kinks that you can discuss.
I’ve always felt uncomfortable or disrespectful busting on a girls face who I cared for. It doesn’t turn me on. It’s not something I watch for in porn but that’s the thing these days. But it’s healthy she’s expressing what she wants and likes to you. You should do the same and continue to experiment. Just my opinion.