Feel like I finally put my foot down.

I tend to be a pretty easygoing guy, I really try and not let little things bother me and to see the best in people. I think this is a good mentality to have, but I also don’t want to get walked all over. I’ve been trying to be better with that as I feel like people have taken advantage of me before.

Recently I had been talking to this girl for a couple months, I thought things were going well but she told me she didn’t think she could be in a relationship so we didn’t talk for a bit. I told her to reach out when she was ready and tbh, I thought it would be a week or two but I never heard from her until I reached out 6 weeks later. We ended up grabbing drinks as friends and she told me that she had still been using my Netflix account (I logged in to her TV when I was at her place once) and that she promised that she was getting one herself soon but she really wanted to watch New Girl (which is a great show, tbf).

Initially I was like whatever but it did rub me the wrong way. She did not communicate with me at all for over a month, but she was fine using my Netflix account every day? Ik it was most likely not her intention, but it felt like she’d been taking advantage of me. So tonight I logged out of all devices on my account. It feels pretty good, I feel like it’s my little victory, that I’ve stood up for myself in a small way after going through a lot with my emotions after she basically ended things. I’m really gonna try and be better about this in the future, I feel a lot better.