Recently I have noticed a rise in men saying they find it extremely hot I am a arab immigrant, it’s very odd and I don’t understand why it’s a thing.
I can speak English fluently with no accent, although some say it’s disappointing as they want me to have a accent, that’s also confusing.
Can someone please explain? It’s been bothering me a lot recently, I have just noticed a rise.
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At least in porn, there seems to be a theme in “corrupting” muslim women who are expected to have repressed sexuality.
Something along those lines maybe?
How long have u been in the uk? And where are u from?
Some people find appeal in immigrants in general. I have this theory it has to do with variety. Every day all day, we’re surrounded by *mostly* the same accent and race. Different can be interesting.
Exotic fetishization of the unknown and forbidden.
I’m a French woman living in the US and guys are obsessed with that fact. They always ask me to speak in French during sex, make my accent stronger ect lol. I think the foreign factor just turns some people on.
The middle east is the focus of both a lot of anger and exoticism after 911. A lot of people grew up vaguely knowing the ‘bad guys are there.
And even if it’s not as destructive as racism can be, those vague ideas end up giving an emotional charge to ideas of attraction and sexuality.
It’s one of the reasons ‘corrupting or cheating’ Middle Eastern women is becoming a bigger porn trend. But landlord porn is also increasing, because the challenges of renting is giving an emotional charge to the power imbalance. Anything that stirs emotions that remains subconscious ends up creating a change in sexual and romantic relationship.
Could be just as simple as you are not what they are used to. So they find you interesting.
Are they mentioning they are drawn to you because you of Arabian descent ?