How do you feel about your first one night stand? Why did it happen?

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1. Not a shamed of it. It happened because he was hot we were both into it and I wanted sex

2. Good experience

3. Couldn’t say which was my first, but didn’t regret anything

4. Not ashamed (anymore) but it wasn’t a good time. Left me feeling unsatisfied and terrible about myself. One time hookups just aren’t for me.

5. It wasn’t good for either of us but it wasn’t horrible or anything, we just weren’t sexually compatible. Oh well.

6. First one night stand was my roomie’s smoking hot army friend. The guy was muscled up, chill and American-Australian. We got drunk and it was pretty amazing. The guy ended up moving in afterwards and it was surprisingly not awkward, so I’d say it was a successful one nigh stand.

7. My first one night stand was great. I come from an island in the Caribbean and sex without marriage is a huge taboo. However one night me amd my best friend(M) (who liked me for a while and I knew) got drunk. We would always talk about taking each others virginities but never went throught with it. However, in drunken sillyness I started teasing him that I could make him cum quickly. He being a redblooded male starting talking me up. Then the next thing I knew we were making out in my friends car. It was time to go home and I offered to go with him. He agreed without hestitation. We got on the bed and he ripped off my clothes and unbuttoned my bra with one hand. I was genuinely shocked by something in me started to gush. The chemistry was there and somehow he knew everything I liked and all my good spots. To this day I dont know how because I never told him. He did this weird thing muttering to himself but I guess it was an exercise to stop from finishing first. And he succeeded because I finish and he still had more in him. I was scared 💀. Then I let him finish in my mouth. After which we fell asleep.

8. My first attempt at one, he couldn’t get hard after I asked him to use a condom 🥲

9. I was 17, I had a huge crush on this guy that worked at the Subway next to where I worked. I’d buy cookies from it all the time just to flirt with him. He was 22 at the time…woops..talk about ILLEGAL😅 but we eventually exchanged numbers. He told me he was in a relationship but they were going through a “rough patch”. The night of my high school graduation he invited me over to “celebrate” so we smoked some weed and ended up doing the dirty deed. I felt like a hoe and a home wrecker cause he wasn’t single but at the same time I was 17 and kinda careless. I still feel guilty and it’s been almost 10 years. 😬

10. Indifferent. I broke up with my first boyfriend a few days earlier and some guy I knew pretended he cared and wanted to see me. I think I was so numb to the entirety of my situation that I didn’t mind it. It felt good, but I was definitely an emotional shell.

11. i don’t have regrets. i never felt any type of way about it other than that it could’ve been better from a pleasure standpoint. i’ve found that hookups are almost never worth it.

12. It was really hot and sexy and out of control. I felt like he wasnt a good guy though and there was an element of danger, something was off about him. He was creepy and mysterious at times. We were trying all sorts of fun things. He had a girlfriend and i didnt know. I had no idea it was coming. He told me he had weed and that he was selling and i should stop by to get some i was like ok! Cool! When i got there There was no weed, just netflix. He had this humongous bed to roll around in and would keep on cuddling with me i decided to join in because he was really cute and he put on a boring movie i already saw.

13. It happen because I was horny and abroad.
    After it I felt really sad for not seeing that person ever again.