Today I am feeling sad and lonely wishing that I had a lovely girlfriend that I could cuddle with. How can I stop feeling so gloomy?

2 comments

1. So I’ll preface this with a “this is a lot easier said than done” disclaimer. However, this is what works for me:

   Focus on the things you have and what you have control over. Do stuff that makes you feel happy and fulfilled, especially if those things put you around other people. Getting into a relationship should be an afterthought, and what should by at the forefront of your mind is just enjoying yourself. You don’t have to cold approach women or use dating apps. Go out with friends (or join a club, go out with siblings, etc.), have a good time, and someone who sees you being happy will gravitate towards you.

2. Same. Only for a boyfriend. ☹