I have a friend for about two years now. I started to notice any time I do anything kind, I hear nothing back. I had a lot of older video games, some house decor stuff and dog toys. We were talking up until I dropped everything off and now I hear nothing.
She had posted on Snapchat last night and I responded to her stories and she didn’t respond back. Lastly, I had mentioned something about a movie this morning, she read it but never replied.
I know people get busy and this is not an ego thing. I genuinely love to help out or gift give, I don’t have an ulterior motive other then not trying to be too much on someone. Or on the other side, looking silly to always be initiating to talk it seems or anything and it doesn’t feel reciprocated.
She had family down last week so I only heard from her once asking me how I was and I responded good and how is it with the family down? I didn’t heard back until that weekend and that’s when I was making her and another friend Halloween bags. That other friend also didn’t acknowledge it either.
I think what makes it worse is being completely ignored after the fact, sometimes several days. Just gets lonely.. I’m not trying to bribe anyone or buy people, I just enjoy making crafts or looking out for others
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It’s simple: your frend is just not that into you. This is NOT a judgment about your worth but rather her perception of your value.
Just let her go, she’s never going to give you what you need.
Just help when asked, do t try anything, if they come to you they do. Otherwise cut contacts until they ask, perhaps y’all have different personalities as well that don’t mix?