Per the title I’ve never dated a black woman. I really would like to but I guess I’m missing something that they want and its really disheartening. I love and adore them but I have an easier time attracting women of other ethnicities. I just had to put this here because its been weighing on me HEAVY. I figure it must be me I’ve given up.
Any other black men have this issue? Black women your thoughts please.
P.s I love them Dark to light I don’t care about shades none of them come my way.
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What type of woman are you into? I’m black and I love nerdy black men.
Well the type of woman you’re looking for and what you’re like can have an effect on your experience. I imagine that you’re a bit *different* from what people are expecting of you, and that can cause some trouble with relatability. So it might be helpful to look for people that are similar to you.
I’m more alternative and low energy, so I focus more on other introverts (unless someone more extroverted is trying to adopt me lol). People who are into afropunk are more my vibe, but the struggle there is that it is basically non-existent locally. But they’re the people most similar to me and won’t be put off by the way that I am so I look for them.
How big are you?