i’ll try to keep this story short, but i have been interested in this guy for a few months and a mutual friend of ours told me that i should ask him because he seemed interested in me. well i ended up asking him to hangout and we did, he said he had fun and that we’ll have to think of another thing to do… he is a relatively quiet guy, but after hanging out he became more talkative and outgoing around me but still is almost somewhat shy when it comes to talking to me. when we text he used to be “dry” but now you can tell he’s putting a little more into his responses. but he never makes an effort to message first and when we are around each other in person he’ll barely talk to me. I’m just a little confused on things because we had a good time together and i thought things were going fine but it just feels like i’m the only one putting effort into things and it’s getting old… so should i keep trying to talk to him or should i just stop and move on?