I don’t think am a very confident person in general but I hate that it affects my decisions and my response to situations. So most of the times I feel I can’t make my own decisions whenever I want. when I handle a situation my way the person it was meant for gets angry or gives me an answer that kinda hurts me. So something in my mind tells me that the way( let’s say a person who hurt me with their comments) the way this person could handle this situation would have been better than mine.