We’ve been dating for three months now and I have always initiated the sex. She likes it rough and likes to be choked to the point of passing out. She’s very good on top and with her mouth. I’m just a little conflicted. You would think she would be horny to want to jump my bones. But now I’m developing anxiety from feeling pressure to initiate.
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How does having an OnlyFans correlate to initiating sex?
The OF is meaningless when it comes to sex with you. Looking at what you say she likes, it could be that she likes you to initiate because she wants to be “taken” rather than put the moves on you herself. But that’s just a guess from a random on the internet. The only way you’re going to know what’s up is to ask her. Sorry.
You can be confident and submissive! Not every woman that does only fans is dominant.
This is a communication issue. You need to ask her to explain more about her sexual preferences and why she doesn’t like to initiate.
I dunno, ask her? We don’t know her. I don’t see how OF and your sex life are connected? Some women aren’t confident enough to initiate especially if they’re a sub. Did you assume because she was on OF she’s sex crazy or something?