I (m28) have been speaking to an ex from years ago (f36) she has helped me out loads in the past and we usually have sex normally when I do see her but the last few times I didn’t want to and she has messaged me saying “I want us to sort thing things together when your ready” to witch I replied “ok” as I didn’t know what to say back then she replied “thank bbe xxxx i still love you ok and want you” I don’t want to be with her and she has really bad suicidal thoughts I don’t want to be with her But I don’t want her to comet suicide because I said I don’t want to witch I feel is a verry big option
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If she kills herself because you shoot her down, it’s not your fault.
Firstly why are you sleeping with your ex?????? Secondly there isn’t really a easy way you just have to do it. Maybe write down a few texts and choose the one that you think is worded better
You’re stringing her along by not being honest. Tell her you’re not attracted anymore and there’s no way for the relationship to work. It won’t be your fault if she harms herself in the process but be gentle when you let her down.
I think she’s a “witch”
Stop giving her false hope by sleeping with her. You say it’s just sex but to her it’s not. Every time you sleep with her it’s telling her there maybe a chance.
Dont get her pregnant and being unstable kids into an unstable parenthood situation