Si when I was younger I realized I masturbate a relatively high amount in comparison to others, because I was always single and never dated anyone my friends would joke that I’d be a “total freak” once I met someone.
Then I did date someone, and honestly sex was nice but a bit overrated. I can’t say I was constantly wanting it and sex caused me more melancholy than happy feelings. Masturbation was still the main way I orgasmed. I was honestly dissapointed in myself for not wanting sex more.
When I told a friend a little bit about that she said I simply haven’t met the right person.
Is she right or am I just lower libido in the end?
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Low libido also means little drive to masturbate.
It’s possible your friend is right and your partner and you didn’t have great chemistry.
It’s also that you’ve conditioned yourself to be lazy.
It’s also possible that there’s something entirely different lurking in your background here, as I’ve never felt “melancholy” through sex with a loving partner.
To me after reading the other comments, it sounds like maybe you haven’t met the right person and are dating who’s available because you’re afraid you won’t get who you want.
Maybe trust yourself more, and be patient for the right one? Though there’s nothing wrong with having fun while you look. . . if you’re having fun.