I liked this girl and I thought she liked me too.
We were really hitting it off the first couple of weeks. She knew I liked her coz I was blunt when we first met and told her my intentions for her. We went on a couple of dates and trips together. At one point, her texts got very limited. I called her out on that and she reasoned that she avoids people whenever she feels overwhelmed. She is currently unemployed and is worrying about getting her life back on track. She *is* interested in me but she wants to fix her shit first before getting into a relationship. Her last request was to give her time and space to think about her feelings and what she really wants to prioritize at the moment. I felt like I was left hanging since she told me that she was still interested in having a relationship of more than friends. 1 month later, here I am writing this and still no word from her.
Soo, I think a month is enough? I’m planning to message her today and ask her what’s up.
Should I go like “Hey, how are you?” and just start from there?
I feel like I need to have this conversation because I don’t want to expel more of my mental energy into this one girl.
It kinda sounds like I’ve been ghosted and reaching out today will confirm it.
Help me hahaha
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Well your behavior is boarder line psychotic, so there’s that.
Don’t do it. They let you down easy, move on.
Dude, if someone tells you she’s not ready for a relationship, believe her and move on.
Yeah move on. Texting her very likely will not bring anything good
I def have gotten that “overwhelmed” text. It’s okay dude. She was trying to be nice. It would be more mature to just say “this ain’t working out good luck” but hey it is what it is