i told my friends i was talking to an 18 year old girl on a dating app and things got kinda steamy and i said i felt kinda weird being the older one and i didn’t want to be using that to any advantage. one of my best friends agreed i could definitely talk to ppl my own age.
i’ve also matched with women older than me, up to 28. would it be weird to pursue something sexual with them too?
im not really sure what is morally sound i guess 😖 the majority of my sex life has been with men older than me and that’s widely accepted by society
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As long as it’s legal I dont think society cares who you have sex with.
As long as everyone is legal, I don’t think a 2-3 year age gap is a big deal. As you start to approach wider age gaps, things can get pretty weird and there can definitely be a power imbalance. But there are also many completely successfully relationships with large age gaps. Just do whatever feels right for you and your partner.
I really don’t think it’s an issue. I’m not sure what the law is where you are but generally 18 and age of consent. Also you’re only 2 years older, not really that big of an age gap at all, most people would consider you both the same age given its so close.
There’s nothing wrong with you getting with an 18yo or a 28yo. That’s not too much of an age difference and it can be fun to get with people with different experience levels. You can learn a lot! Just have fun
Girl your normal. Only advice I have is make sure age’s cause people lie. Other then that no. Dating sites are largely hook ups and there isn’t anything wrong with this IMO. I
So she could join the army and die, but not screw a 21year old?
It’s fine.
Ur fine