I’ve been looking for months for a women who doesn’t prioritize sex and that seems nearly impossible.
I’m not interested in having sex because I’m not good at it, and I’m not good at it because I don’t have enough sex.
I happen to match with women on dating apps but my lack of confidence prevents me from being bold.
I’m no virgin, but I can probably count on my hands how many times I had sex.
This is weighing on my conscience too much.
I’m not sure how to learn without buying sex.
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The lack of sexual experience is fixed with sexual experience. Obviously any woman would be looking for a healthy relationship, and that includes sex. And sorry, but if you are not being good at it, try harder. It is no so difficult to get your partner to cum. In my opinion you should go to a therapist to solve your insecurities.
Buying sex won’t help you learn anything, it’s not a normal relationship, it’s an exchange. Buying sex will just help you orgasm.
Just be confident and be open to trying new things and exploring with a new partner. Confidence is key. We all started somewhere. Let the woman guide you and ask her what she likes. Also learn about female anatomy and how to pleasure a girl.. you have the internet, everything is on the internet!
Lots of women will like a guy who says “hey I’m new to sex but eager to learn, show me how to please you” if you are upfront about it.
It sure beats a guy who claims to be the king of sex and refuses to take guidance expecting all women to be the same
The only way to get better is with practice. What’s more is even people who have had a lot of sexual experience need to learn about a new partner (what turns them on, what spots to hit, etc), since everyone’s unique.
So as long as you’re learning what your partner likes (which someone with more experience will need to do anyway), you’re all good.
You are having bad luck with women because you have zero confidence, and you have no confidence because you are worried about your secual petformance.
You are thinking about it backwards. forget entierly about sex. jerk off before you go outside, or before you go on dates or text someone on an app. That way you aren’t thinking about sex constantly. Be happy about what you do have and someone will eventually notice. After you have found someone attracted to you then your limited experience won’t matter.