So I’ve had sex with my girlfriend for over half a year now but something has been happening recently. This problem never occurred early on in the relationship,
however now it’s starting to become an issue. When my girl and I start making out I get hard and everything’s going great. Then I bring the condom out and all of a sudden it’s a struggle to stay hard when I put it on. I tried a different condom brand but I can’t seem to finish still. I started doing it raw now whenever we want to do it and it’s been staying hard and I’ve been able to finish (don’t really like the risk however). Not sure if I’m the only one that has had this issue but it seems to me I can’t finish or stay hard whenever I have a condom on now.
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I also have consistently had issues maintaining erections with condoms. It just doesn’t feel right, they’re too tight, or too loose etc etc. What I’ve done in response is: 1 get prepped. That means I take a medication that prevents HIV infection or transmission. As part of that protocol I’m tested for everything at least every 90 days. I also have the discussion about stds and hiv with every partner prior to play. And if I or they have anything we abstain. Period. Fortunately most stds are treatable easily. And with a Prep medication the killer can be safely mitigated, managed and avoided.
Still, some playmates insist on condoms and I don’t argue. I go as long as I can until the inevitable occurs. Then I remove the damn thing, re- stimulate until hard and slap another rain coat on…rinse and repeat.