I was reading a post made by a guy that wanted to drop a gift bag to his new girl he is seeing. I looked at the comments and saw how everyone was telling him to “give her space”
btw this is about relationships only. (not casual stuff)
If you come off as needy and too attached there probably is an root issue and you shouldnt try to be in a relationship in the first place.
If you keep messaging the person 24/7 and if you are overthinking everything, it might mean you are just insecure. And yes, you can hide it at first but it will still ruin the relationship later. Acting “chill” and distand and ignoring the person in oder to attract them is not gonna be susteinable.
If you are an insecure person you will get jealous easier and you always worry that you might lose them. You will give that needy evergy and they will either treat you badly or slowly go away.
The best thing to do is take a break from dating/relationships and work on yourself.
These are my two cents, change my mind
btw sorry for my english