Today we tried to have sex (its her first time). I went all out on foreplay and tried using a finger on her. It was painfull but she wanted to keep going and eventually a finger fitted inside. However I m not small, we tried but there was no way it would fit without hurting too much so we stopped. So now I came here for advice, what can we do to eventually have sex some day? Also used a lot of lube, but I think her private parts need to stretch, so maybe more finger time before sex?
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Tell her to push out/bear down almost like she’s pushing out pee. It’s less likely that she’s too tight and more likely she’s clenching up from nerves/anxiety. Pushing out will make it easier for you to get in.