I noticed my partner watching MUCH more porn lately. So much so that he will ignore my texts throughout the day because he’s too engrossed in his hentai.

So much that every time he opens his google, I’m faced with tits or chicks with dicks. Or he’s turning his phone away from me out of embarrassment.

I don’t care that he watches porn, I watch it. But it seems like the level that he’s been viewing it recently is affecting his sexual performance.

He used to finish every. Single. Time. It didn’t matter what position or who was on top.

But now it’s more like he finishes 1 out of 3 times. Not only can he only cum while I’m riding him now, it takes absolutely forever. My legs and thighs are constantly sore because I am having to bounce so long and so hard to finish him off. Half the time he’ll give up and ask me to stop, and then he won’t even give me decent after care when we’re through.

I’m no upset at him, I’m just concerned. And maybe I’m overthinking it, but I’m not sure.

Are these symptoms of death grip or addiction? Please help a girl out. Am I over thinking it? Does he not find me and my body attractive anymore?

5 comments

  1. I think you need to talk to him. There’s nothing wrong with porn imo. Over indulgence in it can lead to complications. More time to bust a nut or indulgence in strange fetishes. You should consult a professional if necessary.

  2. Definitely death grip and addiction.

    Part of the problem with porn is becoming desensitized to sex. And you start watching more extreme niche porn to shock your brain and get you off. It’s like a drug. Porn is only good in moderation.

    As far as death grip, get him a fleshlight and some lube. Too much dry masturbation is bad for his dick

  3. This is sounding like the onset of a porn addiction, and it can be a dangerous downward slide. Talk to him for sure, but he may be near the point of having to seek help if he’s ignoring his life responsibilities and friends and family because of it, and also because he’s seemingly unable to orgasm without it now..

  4. Is anything going on in his life that might be depressing or anxiety provoking? Any big changes that might be stirring him up to be extra worried? Sometimes, but not always, when people exhibit signs of porn or other computer related addictions they can be avoiding life problems. Might be worth checking in with him as he might need some help or support to get through something

  5. I just went through this and ended up breaking up with him. A choice only you can make, see if he’s open to talking to you about your concerns, if he can’t give you that much, I’d walk away. I’ve been with addicts (different kinds) before and rarely so they ever change or get help unless it’s their choice

Leave a Reply
You May Also Like