ex and i broke up 2 months ago.
he was depressed and sad and hated his work and his life.
he stopped having sex with me and he stopped coming over.
i would hang out with him and he would just be working etc.
he said he wanted to remain friends because he was afraid we would hate each other in a relationship and he didnt want to lose me
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he would call me after like twice asking how i was.
i called 2 weeks later telling him how much i missed him.
he started complementing on my instagram stories.
he told me to move on tho.
he called me on our anniversary. and we met.
then he said he werent compatible.
we fought…. and said we couldnt be friends.
2 weeks later he readds me on instagram.
and then wishes me a happy birthday
i delete him again but ask him for help for school and he explains.
then in august he calls me asking for help finding a bank…. then 8 days later he asks me about the position i got then today he texts me asking if i went to orientation and he informs me he is in canada and will be one week late for school.
i will see him there
he says hes friends with most of his exes but it seems like hes trying to hard here…
i dont even care much
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Block him. He’s enjoying the ego kibbles.
He wants you to be there for whenever he feels he needs someone. You should definitely be moving on.
Ignore his *Hoovering* attempts. Ignore his messages and calls.
Stop asking him for help.
What he wants is for you to keep *orbiting* around him like one of Jupiter’s moons.