i feel like it’s hard for me to maintain friendship because I am expecting too much from people. I still reminisce on days where it was easy to call a friend up and hang out on the spot. as an adult, that’s not reality anymore so i’m left confused on how often people see their friends. i have 1 close friend and we see each other every few months. but i’m tired of always reaching out and feel like i give needy vibes atp. i just want a solid group of friends i see maybe once a week but i also understand that everyone is busy with their lives. then again, people will make time for who they choose. am i being unreasonable in how often i would like to see friends?
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It all depends on what you want and what they want. I was raised to learn friends are useless because they just keep needing stuff from you, and they walk alway if there’s nothing you can give them. Very few people are genuine who can be in your life without needing stuff from you. I’m not a misanthrope, just explaining what I’ve experienced.