I (F) can only orgasm by going on top and grinding against him. However, I find it very hard to orgasm like this because we’re mainly just staring at each other. I want him to talk dirty to me, but he’s a bit shy about doing it and doesn’t want to be mean – but I definitely want him to be!
What other things could he do?
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We don’t know what else turns you on.
Communicate what yoz like with him
Make a dirty talk list:
Write down all the things you’d be super happy with for him to call you when having sex or as part of foreplay etc, then give him the list, and say:
I know you are shy and that’s cool, I do love that about you, your my sweet guy.
I’ve made this list, at any point whenever we are having foreplay or sex you can use any of them as often as you wish, none of them are off limits ever.
Have a read of it in your own time, practice using them when you are on your own, then go for it if you ever feel able to, but no worries if not.
Hopefully that’ll help ease his shyness because you’ve put it down on paper, he knows what you want & when you want it, so he’ll not be thinking things like omg did I say the wrong thing and get in his own head.
I know it works for me if I’m shy about something, if it there on paper I been given permission to use them, no matter what gets said afterwards it’s my evidence that I’ve not messed up.
Dirty talking is super awkward tbh. I think it’s something that either comes naturally or it’s just forced.
My wife orgasms very easy the same way. And it’s my favorite position (win/win). I’m always looking at her sexy body while she’s grinding, not really looking at her face. I’m also playing with her boobs, or holding her waist and pushing her down on my cock. So yeah, he needs to do things with his hands, and needs to be looking at your body instead of staring at your face.
Turn around. You can play with his balls and he can smack yer bum, and no awkward staring 💃🏼
Deep French kissing and have him grind up, matching your movements