TL;DR! We were on a break now broke up and her relationship with her only friend which is a guy is making me uneasy and they have booked a hotel for the night for a event.
I will cut a long story short but me and my other half have been on a break which has turned into a break up.
This is even more confusing because we currently have to live together and have a child.
She says she’s still confused but don’t think she can see us getting the spark back.
I still love her but can’t help but feeling something more is going on.
She has become close with one of my friends.
They talk very often and she has said she has more in common then she realised she has also said he is good looking.
I have been trying more recently to try and kick-start our love for each other but feel like she isn’t trying. We had a date night recently where we went for a meal and I suggested going for a drink afterwards but she declined, she then went out after with my friend for a drink. Which felt like a kick in the teeth.
She doesn’t have any other friends and always struggled to make new friends but the the timing and frequency of there contact seems a more than just a friendship to me.
They watch movies together and last night came back later than she said she would. Said she was crying and taking.
she’s recently told me that she is booking a hotel for the night with him either separate rooms or apartment style with separate rooms to see a sporting event together which makes me really uncomfortable.
He doesn’t strike me as the cheating type and she says cheating is the worse way to hurt someone so doubt they actually will.
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I’m sorry to say, but it she’s booking hotels with other guys it’s over man. It sucks, but sometimes it’s best just to try and move on.
It’s not cheating because she’s not in a relationship with you. And yes, she absolutely wants to be more than friends with this guy. Sorry to say. But I’d take your cue to bow out with dignity here.