I had a thought that i’m ashamed of.
Basically me (19m) and MY GF (20f) haven’t had nearly much sex as i would like and i started feeling a lot of pent up sexual ”energy” and today when i was horny and wanted to masturbate i imagined doing things to her that is not okay. I imagined doing stuff to her without knowing if she wanted me to or not.
Like i know i would never do anything without knowing 100% that she was okay with it but i still pictured me doing stuff to her and doing whatever i wanted to without having any idea if she was okay with it or not and now i feel terrible for having thoughts like that.
It wasn’t like i was fanticising about it the entire time but it popped up and i liked it but i felt wrong about it so i had to focus on other stuff. Is this something normal or should i do something about this?
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Normal.
My gf likes to imagine fighting me and cutting me and burning me. Severely. And she’s not even angry at me. I wouldn’t get too upset.
As long as you remember that fantasy might never connect to reality, it’s all fine.
What happens inside your head isn’t going to affect her in any way. And it’s far healthier and safer to relieve yourself than to get pent up sexual frustration.
Plus, she’s probably only happy that you masturbate thinking about her, and not about other women.