Hi all, so this is gonna sound a little silly but I am a 31 and trans. I’ve never had issues with sex until recently, it feels like I get sore really quickly and even with a lot of lube it still feels difficult. I’ve never had issues like this before and it feels like it’s ruining my sex life with my partner which makes me even more frustrated. I’ve tried different positions and stuff but it just doesn’t seem to help much. I’ve also tried using some numbing cream but it just makes it so it’s like sensation less which is equally un-enjoyable. I’m also not a fan of topping and it feels like my once favorite is now something I can’t do. Is this just a part of getting older? Or if anyone has any advice please, I just want to be able to go back to enjoying sex and feel so embarrassed to even be talking or asking about this
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Do you use a lube applicator? Maybe help ensure adequate lube is in the correct places? Helped me.
Maybe this is a silly question but do have hemorrhoids?