Hello all,
Not sure if this is correct place for this question or not but i will try. so i have a friend and she and me hookup once in blue moon otherwise we are good friends. She contacted me about wanted to try 3some with a girl. i guess nice of her to think of me in the mix so she was asking me if i know a girl to join us and my response was i don’t have anyone and i don’t know how to find one. same time she does not know how to find someone either. I am 40ish male and she is 23ish female and we both decent looking and very honest but very friendly so the question is how do we do this? what should we be aware of ? anyone have any thoughts on this
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Thanks
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Not easy… search swingers forums for how to find a unicorn. It’s appropriately named because it’s hard to find. From what I’ve read, your friend will have much better luck bringing one into the mix than you will.
She could go on apps for hookups and make a profile…. just a thought.
Use a hookup app/site. List yourselves as a couple looking for a woman to join you. Make sure you include a picture of you both for the best response.
I’ve had threesomes before. The dynamic can be a bit weird. If she’s bi, that makes it easier but make sure everyone has a chance to get involved and gets an equal amount of attention either way. Communication is key.
its less difficult than people make it out. Have your friend write it up, put it on a few hookup sites and apps, include pictures of you two together for more responses. You’ll usually get a lot of dudes responding who didnt read the post, but its whatever.
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Finding a unicorn, a girl who wants to have sex with a M/F couple, is pretty rare but not impossible. There are apps such as feeld and fetlife. There are some women on there looking to play with couples.
The other thing you can do is hookup or met a girl on your own that is possibly kinky and then connect the two together for a threesome.
MFM threesomes are much easier. You can find guys willing to do that on tinder, grindr, basically any app.
If your friend is bisexual, she can met a girl online as well. And then connect her with you.