I used to let people do and say a lot of things I wasn’t or am not comfortable with, because I didn’t want them to feel bad (because lots of times they can’t know it’s not okay to me). Since I have started to set boundaries for myself, I’ve noticed I am scared of becoming too strict and being more wary in general. How do I find a good balance?
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If setting boundaries is being a buzz kill, you’re outgrowing that circle and it’s time to find different people. It sucks to leave someone behind, but ultimately it sucks more to hold yourself back for someone.
Its impossible to answer this without knowing what exactly are those things that they say.