I’ve been having an issue lately where everytime my girlfriend spends time with her cousin or goes out I have a crash in myself where I feel a huge hole in my chest, we’re pretty much on facetime the whole day, we wake up, sleep, eat, watch tv on facetime etc, basically we like having eachothers presence, however when she does something and I know she won’t text me back for a while I get extremely sad and it bothers me that she’s okay with spending time without me, I know it sounds selfish but I’m not seeking anyone to tell me I’m right or wrong, I know Im wrong and I know the reason why I feel like that is she has people she texts other than me, for instance her cousin, whilst I purely and only text her, I have 0 friends and I’m not really interested in making any, how do I deal with this?
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This is the start of codependency. You should probably start looking into that. Then get a hobby.
Do the same back quit facetime with her don’t answer text for a few hours if she calls don’t answer get a grip and play the game back she will start to worry about where or who your with give that mystery to yourself turn your phone off when you know she’s going to call