I finally started to move on from our relationship and my ex decided to text me telling me he missed me and wanted to try and work things out. Not even a week went by and he told me he wasn’t feeling it anymore and he didn’t want a relationship. After HE decided to come back. This is the third time he’s broken up with me and it honestly makes me feel really down. So we decided to stay friends. He got upset with me because I wanted to hangout and he didn’t and he blew up on me. Now he’s saying he doesn’t want to be my friend and he said some really hurtful things to me. Now all he wants is to be left alone and I respect that. But how do you go from disrupting my healing process to tell me you want to fix things and not even a week later you cut me off again? Is this even worth all the heartache?
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what type of person will lash out when its expectations arent met? can you trust someone who is willing to throw out the whole house if they didnt like the welcome mat?
imo, someone who doesnt have the coping skills to consider a world that exists outside themselves is populated by other individuals with their own life and thoughts will live a hard life because their will wont ever be strong enough to bend an individual… maybe the first relationship should seek out is one with a therapist.
dont trust someone who is unwilling to phatom what comprimise is.