So this online guy I’ve been texting for 3 months now. It was the usual texting 24*7 to just 1-2 hours a day. And I’m fine with it because how much can we talk online. But now he says it’s a lot of screen time for him and he’d rather just talk over the phone. And he’s making stupid excuses like he likes my voice which is actually pretty average.
But here’s the catch. I just happen to know 2 of his fake twitter ids. And he’s active on it all the time.
And honestly I’m okay with making this a slow fade it was boud to happen. But should I be getting on a call with him at all? Because this screen time thing just sounds like crap excuses. Am I even to trust this guy anymore like even as a friend because that’s what he calls me now.
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Enjoying being on social media and mindless scrolling has nothing to do with wanting to talk to a potential partner rather than text them. Why are you making it weird? He likes your voice. That’s a compliment. Most people don’t like their own voice but if he likes yours only he can decide that. He wants to actually talk to you—maybe to verify that you’re real or maybe because he’s sick of mindless scrolling and texting and wants somethig more with you, What did he do to make you distrust him after you spent months 24/7 chatting?
I like calling > texting, expressed that, and we have phone calls a few days a week for a couple of hours, so………….
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I see nothing wrong with what he says about liking to call over text, unless he makes excuses about not doing phone calls either. If anything, the “issue” her is that it sounds to me like it’s mandatory for you to have a texting buddy.
Maybe you have a magic voice.
I doubt it but I’m sure it’s a possibility.
Go on vocaroo your voice and post a link on here maybe you can make some side cash doing ASMR.