I’m still pretty young to be worrying about this with just 16 years but i feel helpless right now
Only recently did i introduce the very few friends i had to each other, and they started to distance themselves from me together so now i feel betrayed and angry but most importantly sad.
I have no idea how to make friends, anything from starting a conversation to not being a dry texter are very hard tasks for me. I don’t really want to make this sound like venting but it probably sounds that way.
I just need some advice or if someone had similar experiences and is fine with sharing them then please go ahead
It might not make me feel as bad as i am right now.
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Practice makes perfect. You are only learning some of the social skills, so it makes sense to not be very good at it yet. For advise:
1. Find smth you are interested in that you are willing to talk about for hours. People like passion, so they tend to like people with passion.
2. Find people who share your interests. It might come later in life though, considering that at 16 your option are a bit limited right now.
3. Ask people questions about them and what they love. 2 good things can come of it: you mind find a new hobby/information you know nothing about and you will learn how to do small talk.
You’ll find your people eventually, but it might take some time, but don’t get mad at not your people drifting away. It might really suck for some time though, know that it’ll pass, so just stick it out for some time, good times are ahead!