um im 24 and feel silly just posting this but its really getting to me my friends for the past 2 years we have been pretty close but now they started hanging out without me and i feel some type of way about it i try talking to them man to man about it and they just look away and come up with some bullshit excuse i just feel bad about like what did i do. all we do is smoke weed and now that im going through it money wise no one hits me up. idk what should i do im just cutting them off but it feels like they have an inside a joke and i dont want come off as dick if i mention it to them
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Are you inviting them to hang out as well and they say they’re busy?
There is alot to unpack in your post and there are lots of things to explore, I would ask myself are these the type of “friends” you want in your life? Sounds to me, from your description and assumptions, they stopped hanging out with you because you don’t have money to contribute to the weed you all smoke together. Without the weed do you do other things together,? If yes, maybe focus on those activities just hanging out when you know you can turn down the offer to smoke weed and just hang out.
Also I would think you have already asked and given them opportunity to explain themselves and maybe they think they are communicating it to you but you might have missed the hints. I would suggest you step back and let them come to you and breach the subject of either hanging out together or if they call to hang out. Either way exam what type of friend you deserve in life and whether they fit that ideal.
Good luck and if things change and you find out what their real issue is do come back and let is know.