Hello everyone, I’m having trouble keeping conversation with women once I approach them. Most guides I have found online tell you how to approach women but not about how to keep talking to them. I dont have much trouble approaching women (mostly thanks to alcohol), but I dont really know what to talk about once I start the conversation. What topics do you use when talking to someone you dont know?
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I personally find making comments about the moment and asking questions, making jokes that can lead into actual questions that genuinely interest you. That usually leads to finding out things that one cares about and can lead to funny conversation.
Obviously does not always land. Laughing and smiling help.
Had some really genuine times just following that rule of thumb.
I say all this but I self sobataged tonight and got in my own way
Just thought I’d try give you ideas
Yeah and you will probably fail. But if you don’t come across thirsty and genuinely find her/him interesting. I reckon it can flow. It’s also about taking care of yourself in the long run trying to maintain a healthy body and mind will help be more attractive and feel good within yourself. I don’t mean being outstanding or anything but just some daily practices of self respect. I believe that creates a good foundation to build on.
But there are always Akward moments and then it makes it really awesome when the akwardness is just not there and you both connect.
Can’t do it with everyone.