A specific fantasy I wanna share with my bf, but I don’t know if it’s weird or not .. feedback?

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1. So you basically want him to cum with your mouth multiple times a day.

2. I honestly can’t see him having a problem with this, what guy would turn that offer down?

3. Lol there’s this specific genre of porn that you’ll basically be doing irl which is called Free Use. Which I wish I had a bf that would do that to me so hell yeah it’s hot and I hope he goes for it!!

4. Depends on the goal.

   Masturbation is nice. It’s sex with someone you hopefully dearly love. I don’t get it, why do you want to take that away from him?

5. > Have you done something like this before?

   Yes. Enthusiastically yes.

   I’ve always been super aroused by the idea of my man’s pleasure “belonging to me and only me and no other woman ever”, and at the same time I’ve always loved giving him pleasure. So this was super relevant to my interests *fairly* early on.

   > Is this a hot fantasy for you guys?

   Not going to lie, I enjoyed the fantasy probably more than him, because it played super big into my possessiveness and jealousy in an innocuous way. But he still found it hot enough to talk dirty to me about it when he was taking care of me.

   Also he got blowjobs out of it.

6. If he has any issues with this… I’m available. 🤣

   Seriously though, no man will ever have an issue with this.

7. You will ruin him for all other women 🤣

8. I’d be down.

9. I think he’d be okay with it depending on how much you’re willing to do. From what you said, I think it’s fair to assume he needs release more than once per day. If you’re willing to match that, then go for it

10. I know my man would love that deal!

11. I have a pretty high sex drive and usually the more dominant one. But getting a blowjob daily AND being able to choose whatever the girl wears while she can choose when would be a huge turn on for me and would love to try it.

    Keep in mind teasing can be really fun as long as the teasing doesn’t last too long and there is a payoff. There is a line where teasing goes from being fun to very frustrating

12. Some times you want to be alone

13. You’re gonna really make him yours with that

14. I have a wicked high sex drive. I’m lucky if I see my girlfriend twice a week. We go at it hard but I like her so much and find her so attractive that I don’t even want to masturbate before I see her. This has never happened to me before, I usually get myself off A couple times a day every day. It really sucks not being able to spend as much time with her as we would like. But you are an angel for doing this for your man.

15. damn somebody put that idea in my gf’s head please

16. Why do you want to do this? Did you have any negative feelings about him masturbating? Some girls are jealous of it, masturbation and sex are two different things, one does not replace the other.

    If not, it seems to me that you want to control how he feels pleasure. This looks like the D from BDSM:

    >Dominance: The act of dominating a sexual partner, both in and out of sex. Sometimes, dominants have arrangements with their sexual partner in which they dictate (with the others’ consent) not only their partners’ behavior in bed but also behavior out of it — from food habits to sleep patterns.

    Some guys REALLY like it, but for some guys the idea of being controlled is not a good thing.

    Anyway, this isn’t weird at all, but you two need a good talk about it. Good luck!

17. I think it’s a good idea and he’ll love it😊

18. My last girlfriend literally sucked on my cock every single morning as soon as she woke up!

19. This makes me super sad because I’ve tried this, and despite all the comments of ‘no man would turn this down’ or ‘I’m available instead’ I have tried blowing my guy to wake him up, blowing him when he gets home, just any opportunity. Truth is I get turned down a lot. Like I wish I could suck him off everyday. Like I live for that shit. But I’m hoping your guy is ‘normal’ and won’t turn you down!

20. You’re a keeper

21. So you’re guaranteeing 1 x bj/day but he can’t have do anything to himself outside of that? Is that right? I think it sounds great tbh. I think knowing you’re never more than 24 hours from a blow job is both enough to make you turned on, but also enough to make the anticipation build and avoid the temptation for to relieve yourself.

    Go for it and let us know how it goes.

22. Maybe stop trying to control your partner’s masturbation habits, unless he is in to that, I guess.

    If you want to try free use, go for it, see if he is game.

23. Nah every guy hates getting blow job, right?

    /s

24. What happens on day 32?

25. dont worry he will agree to this 😀

26. Actually yes!! Did that but not with the catch. If you can talk about sex freely, Do you those moments when you open up? Preferably when you’re both horny and just about to get on? I think it won’t be a problem. All guys love BJ (almost all).

    And what’s the worst thing that could happen? He could say, “Nah, don’t think so,” but still be VERY impressed and feel masculine and sexy. Also, very happy to hear you fantasise about him. If no? Then you both laugh, and you say, “did not hurt to ask”.

    But I’m pretty sure he’ll go for it. Not the craziest by far. Just good fun.

27. So how to tell him?

    Sit him down and tell him just like you did us.
    Then tell him he no longer needs to touch himself for pleasure because your mouth (or pussy and ass when you advance to that level) is always available and ready for him. The only exceptions are xxx I’m on the phone with my mother or I’m doing this or that. But just let me know and I’ll end the call or whatever and be ready.

28. I’ve had fantasies like these! Where it’s like a daily thing and he uses me in ways he wants to pleasure himself. But my bf has the opposite, low sex drive 🙁 so this definitely wouldn’t work out for us.but you should totally try with him!

29. I’d love it my girl blew me every damn day

30. I wish more women had this as a fantasy.
    I’m lucky if I get one a month.

    Any man that would turn this down is insane.

31. >I’m even willing to throw in me wearing what he wants while I go down on him.

    If he doesn’t ask for a T-Rex suit I’m gonna be disappointed

32. I would go along with that, kind of a way to add a bit of spice to the sex life.

33. 👏👏👏👏👏

34. this sounds like a very equal deal. It’d be hard for me, but the reward is very enticing.

35. Damn, sounds so hot, i thought something like that would only exist in porn or parallel universe lol. Your boyfriend are so lucky.