Men who aren’t attracted to men, what do men have that turns you off?

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1. The fact that they’re not a woman, bodily hair is a turnoff.

2. They are a man instead of a woman.

3. entirely different body might be the biggest factor, covered in hair, the prospect of anal grosses me out, especially if the hole in question is hairier than a Globetrotter’s afro

4. It could just be that my brain isn’t wired that way, bro

5. Everything basically from voice to appearance. It’s just naturally a turnoff. I see potential comrade, not anything more.

6. The penis is definitely a big turn off. Not that I can’t appreciate a decent phallic member it’s just really not in my lexicon to desire it.

   Other than that I struggle to respect submissive males and consider domineering males to be a threat and generally meet that with equal or greater aggression.

   I have extremely close bonds with males through Brotherhood but it’s in no way in a sexual way beyond wanting myself and my brothers ti be successful in mating.

7. Literally the fact that they are a human male with a y chromosome and a dick

8. all of the above

9. The gatekeeping, the pissing contests, the spiteful bs over petty bs, and pretty much everything appearance wise. There’s also a lot of gay guys who don’t respect boundaries and are sex pests like some straight men are with women who are lesbian.

10. The shape is all wrong. Wrong body parts. Wrong smell. Wrong attitudes.

11. It’s not that Men disgust me. It’s just feeling nothing when it comes to attraction. There is no urge or desire for me to approach. A lack of spark, if you will.

12. All of the above. The dick, body hair and deep voice are the main ones.

13. It’s more what they don’t have

14. It’s not what they have, it’s what they don’t have: a vagina, curves, soft skin, boobs.

15. What a weird ass question…seriously

16. > Is it just the penis? Is it the deeper voice? Is it the extra body hair? Is it the body shape (broader shoulders and narrow hips)? Lack of boobs? Etc?

    Yes

17. The penis is kind of hard to love. I also think I don’t like the torso hair and I think men kind of look worse when fat than women do.

18. Dick, mainly

19. I’m a gay dude… but whichever way you happen to swing… it all just kinda comes down to how we’re wired.

    You can’t really isolate any particular features as the reason for not being into men/women… because it’s usually EVERYTHING. You’re either into them or you’re really not.

20. The inability to be a woman.

21. The question already contains a misconception.

    A mans attractiveness is of no concern to me whatsoever, because I was never interested in them in the first place. They don’t turn me on, they are not part of my sexual world. Like most (living) things, they just are not part of any person’s sexual world.