I matched with a girl (34 F) on hinge and we made plans
for a first date. we ended up having a great time. I was even able to go back to her apartment and make out a little more.
Then the following Text exchange happened (see below)
[Tuesday after the date]
Her: “Text me when you make it home safe!”
Me: “Back safe, that was so much fun!”
Her: “Awe thank you! I had a really great time. I look forward to seeing you this weekend! 😍🥰”
Me: “I really enjoyed it too, there is a spark and I’m excited to get to know you even more. Can’t wait!”
Her: “You’re special! You have a big heart! I’m grateful for crossing paths with you & I look forward to getting to know you more 🥰”
Me: “You have a huge heart right back! Seriously looking forward to it”
[Weds of last week]
Her: “Thanks again for last night! I hope you’re having a great day! 😊
Me: “Hey [Her name]! Aw that put a smile on my face. How was your day?”
[Friday]
Me: “Hey [Her name] Happy Friday! Are you free tomorrow?”
I haven’t heard back. Do I do anything? I’m bummed as
she seemed really into it, even texting me on weds to say
she had a great time, then just silence : (
2 comments
I don’t think you need our help, you had some pretty great lines in there and seem to know what you’re doing. Just keep following up with this woman as much as you’re willing to and hope for the best.
Always remember that girls will make time for guys they genuinely like.
When it’s been 72 hours since you last heard from her, give her a phone call. She will be surprised (who calls these days?), but tell her you were genuinely worried as you haven’t heard from her over the weekend – who knows might have happened?