I (30M) have encountered this before on a couple occasions. Like I had a good friend, we hung out a lot, then went dancing in a club. I could feel the chemistry really strong with her. I wasn’t crossing a line or anything (I don’t think). Just salsa and bachata. But after like 2 dances she seemed like really anxious and sweating and avoided dancing with me again. She is like die hard Christian so maybe she sees dancing with me like the devil or something? I was really bummed because I think we could could have something if she wanted. But The next day we are just normal friends again. Then I been taking Latin dance classes with this one instructor. Everything is fine in the private session. She is not afraid to get close and we have great chemistry and I have been learning a lot. Then when it comes to dancing at the social I will ask her to dance and she gives some lame excuses and she won’t dance with me. But I think she is like dating one of the guys there maybe? So maybe she is afraid to show any connection between us in public? But she dances with a bunch of other guys. Or maybe I am just like missing something. Anyways I guess my question is is it possible for a girl to feel to uncomfortable if sparks are like flying? And then avoid the guy? Most girls say they enjoy dancing with me. But the girls I have felt the strongest connection with things turn awkward… for some reason..

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